"Since you have 3 more visits required, and you really don't need this, let's have a little fun with it. I'm going to give you my opinion as a friend here, well we're not really friends, but we could be, this is just my personal opinion, it doesn't mean anything more than your opinion, it's just something to think about."

"you need to stop being so hard on yourself. There's nothing wrong with you. Your not perfect - but no one is. Stop putting such high expectations on yourself. Hell, stop putting such high expectations on everything. Just let things roll, let them be however they want to be. You'd think a relaxing vacation in Hawaii would do that for you - but apparently it just strings you up even more. It's insecurity - that's all."

"Stop playing with Brian. Just be real. Be yourself. If you feel like crying, cry. If you have a real problem with his gf tell him so. Hell, tell her. Just don't bottle it up and let it explode."

"Stop being so insecure that you need validation every second. You have no reason to be insecure. There are plenty of people that are jealous of you. You have no reason to worry. It doesn't matter if you can get Brian to say it - he thinks your cool, and pretty, and a dozen other things. Frankly, it sounds like he adores you, I don't know why else he would put up with all of this."

"There's only one thing you can do - it sounds like you've tried to do it, but haven't gotten completely there. Just lay it all out on the table. Every single bit, every fear, every worry, everything. If you are real - he will believe you. There's only one way it can end - with your happiness.